Sunday, December 31, 2023

The Sunday Post #351

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The Sunday Post is a chance to recap the past week, talk about next week, tell you what I’m reading, and share news. It’s hosted by The Caffeinated Book ReviewerReaderbuzz, and Book Date.




The Sunday Post #351





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For the millionth year in a row, I'm signing up for the Discussion Challenge hosted by Feed Your Fiction Addiction and It Starts At Midnight. Come join us and talk about books!






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In My Reading Life


I read two extremely philosophical books last week. My brain accidentally got a workout.




First was Pew by Catherine Lacey. This is a weird little book. It starts with a family in the American south going to church and finding a stranger asleep on their family's pew. No one at the church knows this person, and the family can't agree on the person's age, race, or gender. They decide that the stranger needs help and should come home with them. It quickly becomes apparent that the stranger has amnesia and an unwillingness to communicate, so the family nicknames them "Pew" and teams up with other townspeople to help.

Everything goes okay at first, but Pew doesn't "get better" in the way that the town wants. Pew won't cooperate with doctors or spill their secrets to the townspeople. Pew just exists. Eventually, the townspeople's compassion turns to anger and suspicion. They don't want Pew around anymore.

This novel gives the reader a lot to think about. How do we decide who needs help? Pew never asks for help. They enter the church because they need a place to sleep, and they plan to leave town in the morning. The townspeople assume that Pew needs help because Pew doesn't fit in with society. The people try to force Pew to talk about the past, and they take Pew to doctors to "get answers" about Pew's race, age, and gender. The townspeople never pause and think that Pew might not need this type of help. Maybe Pew just needs friendship and understanding.

The book gave me a lot to ponder, but I struggled to stay interested in the plot. It's extremely repetitive. Pew gets passed from family to family. At each household, someone tells Pew their life story. Pew says nothing. Repeat for 200+ pages. I wanted something else to happen.

The author tried to add suspense with the Forgiveness Festival. The townspeople are planning a festival where they confess their sins in public. There are hints that the festival could go horribly wrong if people get pissed at each other. It gives vibes of Shirley Jackson's "The Lottery," but it wasn't enough suspense for me.

Pew is an interesting thought experiment, but it doesn't really come together as a novel.





Then I read Sabrina by Nick Drnaso. It's the first (and maybe only?) graphic novel that has been a finalist for the Booker Prize. I had to see what the hype is about.

The title character, Sabrina, goes to a party and never comes home. Her unexplained disappearance leaves her boyfriend severely depressed. He can't stand to stay home and wait for answers that might never come, so he goes to visit a friend who works at an Air Force base. Then Sabrina's disappearance blows up on social media and on conspiracy theory radio shows. Conspiracy theorists see the boyfriend's trip to the Air Force base as proof that the government is behind whatever happened to Sabrina. The conspiracy theorists want answers and will stop at nothing to get them.

You might think this book is a mystery, but it's not! It's so much bigger than one missing woman. It's about an aspect of US society that's hard to explain. I guess I'd call it nonstop mass grieving? Every day there's a new missing woman, a new shooting, a new unexplained violent act. We can't get away from it because we're constantly being force-fed news. How are we supposed to cope? Some people are going to turn to conspiracy theories because they want a big bad wolf that they can blame for every problem.

The book is also about how the Internet can isolate us. The conspiracy theorists don't believe that Sabrina's friends are real people. The conspiracy theorists think the friends are actors and have no problem relentlessly harassing them. It can be easy to dehumanize others when you mostly see the world through a computer screen.

I like the plot. I love the themes. I understand the art style, but I also really hate it. The art is undetailed and ugly. All the characters and settings look the same. There are lot of drawings of people standing in empty rooms. It captures the numb, lonely, monotony of grief, but I hate it.

I know why the Booker Prize judges chose this book. It's about how giant tragedies keep invading our lives and how we become numb to them in order to keep living. It's a timely novel that will resonate with a lot of readers.





In The Rest Of My Life


Five things that made me happy last week:


1. I hope you're having an excellent Christmas / New Year / holiday time. Brooklyn is living her best life.




2. In my previous Sunday Post, I talked about how I was searching for a sweet Christmas show, but Netflix kept serving me true crime. Well, I finally succeeded in finding something cute. I watched Dash & Lily. It was adorable.

3. One of my Pinterest pins suddenly started getting a lot of clicks on Christmas Eve and Christmas. I tried to investigate why. This is the explanation that Pinterest gave me:


Um . . . I have two observations. Observation #1: My pin has nothing to do with any of these trends. Observation #2: It sounds like Pinterest users had a very merry Christmas.

4. I got Lush bath bombs for Christmas. I love bath bombs, but I've never had ones from Lush before. I now understand why Lush is the superior bath bomb maker. The bombs smell amazing, and the smell doesn't fade immediately. Now I'm spoiled and don't want any other bath bombs. Only Lush.

5. It's "Best Books" time! I love seeing all the "Best Books Of 2023" lists. My list will (hopefully) be up on Tuesday.





FOR MORE UN-SMÜTTY BOOKS









Take care of yourselves and be kind to each other. See you around the blogosphere!








32 comments:

  1. Lol at the Pinterest Pin! And yay for Brooklyn!

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  2. I actually have already seen V-Day stuff in stores. *facepalm* I remember ready Dash & Lily years ago but I haven't seen the show. So your Pin was either super dirty or Bible related? Yeah, that's helpful. lol

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  3. That Pinterest pin had me laughing so hard AJ!!!

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  4. I am crying from that "insight". Hilarious! For whatever reason, it's great to see people finding and loving your pins. Brooklyn is getting so big! Crazy! I read Dash & Lily (didn't see the show), and agree, very sweet and heartwarming. I use Lush's shampoo bars. Love them! You know that's the same guy who started The Body Shop?

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  5. I look forward to seeing you "best of" list, I do like being reminded of what everyone enjoyed over the year even though it increases my "to get" book list. I never saw Dash and Lily so will put it on my list of shows to watch.

    Happy New Year!

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  6. I actually have already seen Easter stuff at stores too! I think it was Dollar Tree. I do love Lush stuff when I get it. Happy New Year!
    Lisa Loves Literature

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  7. The first blurb about Pew that I saw made it sound like something I might like to read. Now I think...no.

    I must look for Dash & Lily. Maybe tonight!

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  8. Brooklyn is so cute! I've already started seeing Valentine's stuff up. I'm looking forward to your "Best of" post. Happy New Year!

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  9. So glad Brooklyn (and you!) had a great Christmas. Henry kept getting stuck on one gift at a time.

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  10. Happy new year! I just finished a really funny show called Colin from Accounts. Also Heartstopper is amazing. I'm working on my best of 23 list as well, looking forward to seeing yours!

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  11. I look forward to seeing your Best books lists. We did ours this past week and would love to have you link to it. I love that Brooklyn had a great Christmas. Wishing you all a Happy New Year!

    Anne - Books of My Heart This is my Sunday Post

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  12. Ha! That Pinterest pin is hilarious. I love that two of the explanations are smutty smut and then The Bible. I'm glad that Brooklyn had a great Christmas. I always love to see happy kids on Christmas. Sabrina sounds very interesting. I might have to check it out. Happy New Year and thanks for stopping by my blog!

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  13. That pintrest pin cracks me up!!

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  14. Yay for Brooklyn! Happy New Year! Yes, the Valentine's stuff has already hit the store, insert eye roll. I am over it all. Cindy from cindysbookcorner.blogspot.com

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  15. Oh I loved Dash and Lily! I'm glad you enjoyed the movie. That Valentine's Day meme is just painful to me, it's too early! I hope you have a very happy new year!

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  16. That's funny about the pin! You just never know! :)

    Happy NY!

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  17. Thank you for helping me know about bad links on my end of year book survey. I cleaned them all up so I hope you will try again!

    Happy New Year.

    My end of the year post about favorite books and blog posts

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  18. Haha, the Pinterest thing made me giggle!

    Lush bath bombs are really amazing. Strong scents can bother me a bit so I have to store them carefully until I want them, but they're so good. I had "I Want a Hippopotamus For Christmas" left over from a previous year and found it this Christmas, and aaah love it. They're a whole experience. My favourite though was a bath melt that smelled like mango... don't know if they still make it.

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  19. LOL! Pinterest has the weirdest reasons for making your post go viral! Hope you have a great New Year!

    Here’s my Sunday Post

    Rabbit Ears Book Blog: WORLD’S WEIRDEST BOOK BLOG!

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  20. Well done on signing up for the Discussion Challenge, it's a challenging one for sure. Happy New Year.

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  21. You might not be ready for Valentine's Day candy in the stores, but I reviewed a St. Patrick's Day themed anthology on 12/26, the day it was published.

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  22. Sabrina sounds like a relevant book. I probably want to pick my mood for that one, though. Most of the time I really do need to live in a bit of a bubble to function well.

    Thanks for the Lush bath bomb review. I looked at them once and couldn't get myself to spend the money for one bath. But knowing they're good makes me think an occasional treat is worth it.

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  23. Interesting books. I'm glad Brooklyn had a great Christmas! I don't do bath bombs but am glad you are loving yours. Come see my week here. Happy reading and Happy New Year!

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  24. Lololol. Smut books and the Bible. What now? 😂 Also, Lush does make the best bath bombs. 100%.

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  25. Wishing you all the best in 2024! :D

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  26. Added Pew to my list even though you said it didn't really come together as a novel. The idea of it is too intriguing to pass up.

    Brooklyn looks like she is on a mission to unwrap that gift.

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  27. Happy new year! Both Pew and Sabrina sound interesting. Not sure I have the brain power for them right now.

    Glad you had such a wonderful Christmas. Wishing you a new year of good books and blessings.

    https://thebookconnectionccm.blogspot.com/2024/01/its-monday-what-are-you-reading-and.html

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  28. I look forward to your discussion posts this year. I wasn't around much in 2023 and hopefully it's not just wishful thinking that I will be able to be more present this year. I have heard of Pew and wondered about it. Such an interesting premise. I can see why it would be thought provoking. Sabrina sounds really interesting. I hadn't heard of it before. I may have to check that one out.

    Dash & Lily is cute. I really liked it when I watched it. I am glad you enjoyed it!

    Have a Happy New Year, AJ!

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  29. I read Dash & Lily years ago. Didn't know they made it into a movie. Fun! Happy New Year, AJ!

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  30. Your Pinterest story is hilarious. Folks looking for super dirty smüt on Christmas Eve is too funny. Why not? And the ü? Love it. Happy New Year!

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  31. Thanks for the heads up about Sabrina by Nick Drnaso. I've added it to my must read list for 2024!

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  32. Pinterest! :-D

    I'm not lying here. I went to Walmart for groceries on December 26. The Valentine's Day stuff was out. Probably not all of it, but there was a lot considering that the store had been closed the day before.

    I just listened to Dash & Lily a few weeks ago. I loved it! I cancelled Netflix a few months ago but I'll have to watch it when I give up and go back to them at some point in the future.

    Happy New Year!

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