Me Before You – Jojo Moyes
Louisa Clark is
an ordinary girl living an exceedingly ordinary life—steady boyfriend, close
family—who has never been farther afield than their tiny village. She takes a
badly needed job working for ex-Master of the Universe Will Traynor, who is
wheelchair-bound after an accident. Will has always lived a huge life—big
deals, extreme sports, worldwide travel—and now he’s pretty sure he cannot live
the way he is.
Will is acerbic, moody, bossy—but Lou refuses to treat him with kid gloves, and
soon his happiness means more to her than she expected. When she learns that
Will has shocking plans of his own, she sets out to show him that life is still
worth living.
Review: Remember that time I bought a few
romance books to get out of my reading comfort zone? Well, this was one of
them. I put off reading it for months because the author has won many awards
for her romance fiction. In my love-phobic world, that would automatically put
a book in the “don’t touch with a 50-foot stick” category. But, I read Me Before You, and . . . it was good.
There are actually a lot of things I like about it.
Me Before You follows two characters, Will and Louisa.
Will lived a fast-paced life, until he was hit by a motorcycle and became a
quadriplegic. Will’s parents hire Louisa to take care of him and to convince him
not to go through with his plan to commit assisted suicide. Since this is a
romance, Will and Louisa fall in love, but love may not be enough to change
Will’s plans.
This book is so much more than a love
story! It’s about the
ethics of assisted suicide and the challenges that disabled people face in a
world that’s not made for them. It’s also about two very different people who
slowly learn to get along.
“ . . . I told
him a story of two people. Two people who shouldn't have met, and who didn't
like each other much when they did, but who found they were the only two people
in the world who could possibly have understood each other.” – Me Before You
Honestly, I didn’t like either of the main characters
on their own. Will is a jerk, and Louisa is kind of . . . vapid? That
sounds horribly mean, and the author probably intended for her to be bland, but
other than her unusual clothing choices, there doesn’t seem to be much going on
with Louisa. I did like the characters
when they were together and learning from one another. At first, Will is
just a paycheck and a curiosity to Louisa. She treats him like an object that
she needs to care for. As the story goes on, she learns to listen to him and
respect his choices. He may be paralyzed, but he’s not an idiot. He has
opinions and can make decisions for himself.
The book also shows what it’s like to
live as a quadriplegic. This is the most interesting part of the story for me because I’d never read a book
with a quadriplegic protagonist before. I’d never thought about how difficult
life would be for people in that situation. It’s hard to watch Will struggle
with everyday activities. For him, it’s humiliating to need help and to be
stared at or overlooked when he’s in public. I can understand why he would be
depressed about it.
“I will never,
ever regret the things I've done. Because most days, all you have are places in
your memory that you can go to.” – Me Before
You
My biggest problem with Me Before You is the message it sends. The message I got from it is, “If you
can’t have grand adventures, life isn’t worth living.” Before Will’s accident,
he traveled the world, had tons of amazing sex, and participated in extreme
sports. Now that he’s quadriplegic, he’s considering suicide because he can’t
have those types of adventures anymore. Louisa is (mostly) satisfied with her
life in a small town, but then Will basically bullies her into traveling and
going on adventures. In Will’s opinion, Louisa is wasting her life.
This whole
adventure thing kind of makes me uncomfortable. I’d love to visit Paris or
climb Mount Kilimanjaro, but that’s not financially or physically possible at
this point in my life. Those things may never be possible for me. My life is
still valuable, even without the expensive adventures. There are many ways to
enjoy life.
If you’re
romance-phobic like me, then this book might be a good way to get into the
genre. There is a love story, but it’s not the entire focus of the book. The
story and the characters give you plenty of other things to think about.