Sunday, February 22, 2026

The Sunday Post #398

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The Sunday Post is a chance to recap the past week, talk about next week, tell you what I’m reading, and share news. It’s hosted by The Caffeinated Book ReviewerReaderbuzz, and Book Date.




The Sunday Post





On The Blog Recently






In My Reading Life




I am continuing my search for a self-help book that actually helps. I've been asking more people for recommendations. A librarian at my local library recommended Man's Search For Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl.

I think this book could be helpful! Even if it's not helpful, it's a pretty fascinating story. The author was an Austrian neurologist, psychologist, philosopher, and Holocaust survivor. In the first part of the book, he shares stories from his life and explains how the events shaped the way he thinks. The author believes that the search for meaning is what keeps humans motivated. If we lose our desire to find meaning, then we lose our will to live.

This idea resonated with me because I was a severely depressed teenager. Every time I made a plan to kill myself, I would stop and think, Wait . . . if I'm dead, I'll never be able to write a book. That thought is literally the only reason I'm alive right now. The belief that I could write a book someday was my meaning. My meaning was stronger than my depression. I think Viktor Frankl does an excellent job of exploring this concept.

I also appreciate how the author approaches his life story. It's balanced and compassionate. He looks at all the people involved in an event and tries to figure out what was driving their behavior. It feels grounded. The author is examining people's actions instead of instantly judging the actions as right or wrong. He wants to know the "why" behind them.

The second half of the book lost me a little. It feels like an article in a medical or theology journal. I was not interested enough in "logotherapy" to stay focused. That might be my own problem. I can see how other readers would get something out of it.

I recommend this self-help book. I think it could help!





Okay, next self-help book. This one was recommended by a brain doctor. (Neurologist? Psychologist? I honestly don't remember all the letters after her name.) Anyway, she told me to read What Happened To You?: Conversations On Trauma, Resilience, and Healing by Bruce D. Perry and Oprah Winfrey. (Yes, that Oprah Winfrey.)

The book is a conversation between Oprah and Dr. Perry. They mostly talk about childhood trauma and how it wires your brain to behave in certain ways. If the adults in a child's life don't understand the child's trauma, then the child's behavior will seem like disobedience. Punishing the child for disobedience won't fix the behavior because trauma is causing the behavior. The trauma is what needs to be addressed.

I can't judge the helpfulness of this book because I'm not the target audience. The authors are talking about big trauma, like child abandonment or attempted murder. The stories in this book are the kinds of things you would have seen on Oprah's talk show. I have not experienced Oprah-level trauma. If you have, then this book is probably helpful. It's an easy-to-understand introduction to the topic.





In The Rest Of My Life


In addition to judging self-help books, I've been teaching myself about different kinds of AI. I feel like we're being shoved toward using AI, and I want to understand the impact of what I'm doing.

As part of my not-so-scientific research, I fed this blog to NotebookLM. Then I asked, "What should the narrator* write about next?"

*It's me. I'm the narrator of my blog.

I thought NotebookLM's answer was hilarious. My blog is not super serious, but the AI took its assignment seriously. Here's what it told me to write about:


To attract more readers, the narrator should consider blogging about their ongoing quest to find a "self-help book that actually helps," a topic that aligns with their current life stressors and successful past content. The sources indicate that the narrator is currently in EMT school, which they describe as a "six-month-long panic attack," while also working as a park ranger. A post blending these personal experiences—what the narrator calls their signature "narcissism style"—with reviews of books about resilience or high-stress professions would likely resonate with an audience that enjoys their "stupid anecdotes."


1. The "Self-Help Quest" Series


The narrator has already mentioned asking doctors and "random ladies at the gym" for recommendations to find a life-changing book. A blog post or series titled "I Read the Most Popular Self-Help Books So You Don't Have To" would leverage the narrator's skeptical and witty voice. This topic would also appeal to their interest in psychology, seen in their anticipation of books like Supercommunicators and Sociopath: A Memoir.


2. High-Stakes Professional Memoirs (Park Rangers and EMTs)


Since the narrator has been a park ranger since 2019 and is nearing the end of EMT school, they could create a curated list of "Books That Capture the Stress of Saving Lives". They previously loved Ranger Confidential, a book that unveiled the "behind-the-scenes stuff" of national parks, despite finding it stressful to read. This topic would allow the narrator to use their own "gallows humor" to attract readers interested in nature and emergency services.


3. Niche History and "Morbid Stuff"


The narrator explicitly states that "History + Morbid stuff" might result in their "favorite book ever". To attract readers who share their obsession with cults, true crime, and "traumatizing" literature, they could blog about:


The History of Cults: Building on their experience of having read "a billion cult books" and their interest in titles like The Prophet Calls and Helter Skelter.

Medical and Forensic History: Following their interest in This Way Madness Lies (the history of Bedlam hospital) and The Buried Soul (how humans invented death).


4. Visual-Heavy "Aesthetic" Lists for Pinterest


Because most of the blog’s traffic comes from Pinterest, the narrator should prioritize topics with high visual potential. They have already seen success with posts about minimalist covers and "swirly" art. A post titled "The Most Beautifully Designed Short Books for a Reading Goal" would combine two of the narrator's successful strategies: an aesthetic focus and a practical tip for meeting a Goodreads goal.



Okay, that's enough from NotebookLM. This is me writing now. The AI clearly missed the part where I graduated from EMT school. (Or I forgot to mention it on the blog). Either way, I'm graduated and have all my certifications.

What do you think of the AI's analysis? Would you read any of the suggested blog posts? Would you feed your blog to an AI?





If You Read This Entire Post, You Deserve A Girl Scout Cookie










Take care of yourselves and be kind to each other. See you around the blogosphere!








26 comments:

  1. I have read a lot of books on happiness (would these be considered self-help? maybe some of them) and I think reading these books and taking notes and practicing a few of the happiness-making ideas has made me a significantly happier person. Good luck with your quest!

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  2. The self-help books sound good, especially Man's Search for Meaning. While smart to an extent, AI can be dumb at times. I like what yours says for #3 though. This is a fun idea, I should ask AI to write some of my Sunday updates. Enjoy your week.

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  3. You did mention on the blog that you graduated EMT school, so AI missed that one. I don't know if it's true that a lot of blog interest comes through Pinterest. I rarely get on Pinterest, but when I do it's not to go look for blogs.

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  4. I think self help is tough to work through without a sounding board. Any time I am making a decision, I discuss it with several people and get their input. They may think of factors I ignored or come up with solutions which wouldn't occur to me. Then I reanalyze to get the best choice for me.

    Anne - Books of My Heart This is my Sunday Post

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  5. I use ChatGPT for work sometimes. I currently do marketing, and if I'm stuck or have a time crunch, I'll use it to write social media captions for me. I always have to take out the million emojis it inserts lol.

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  6. I like that AI noted your wit. It's something I love when I read your posts. I have never used AI, but my daughter rages about it all the time and I fall for the AI animal videos all the time.

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  7. You mentioned on my blog that you’re looking for something to watch. As a training EMT you’d likely love The Pitt. Enjoy and have a great week.

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  8. I hope you have an extra thin mint to pass my way :). I read "Man Search for Meaning" in my first philosophy class as a freshman in college. Great back. I read it once again a few years later, but it's been decades since I last read it.

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  9. NotebookLM seems to have analysed your blog quite accurately to me, especially in recognising you have a witty and sceptical tone. Self help is not an area of interest to me personally but I do really enjoy your reviews, and anecdotes about your work. I am curious about what AI might have to tell me about my blog, but I don’t know if I’m curious enough to do anything about it.

    Wishing you a great reading week

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  10. Your books look really interesting. Self Help books can be really helpful. Hope you have a great week!

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  11. I want to learn more about Ai as well. It is going to change everything.

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  12. I'd definitely not feed my blog to an LLM; the environmental impact is so far out of proportion to any proposed actual use people get out of LLMs, and the plagiarism machine is already bad enough without swallowing anything else of mine it hasn't already stolen. Implicit bias and misinformation are obviously concerning as well. The impacts on human ability to learn and understand information concern me a lot.

    The loss in critical thinking I see is astounding: at work, I get people contacting the support team because they can't understand things. The things they're having trouble with are clearly explained in our documentation, but they literally won't read it: even when I give them the link or reply to them in my own words, they then copy/paste it into their LLM, which gives them a summary, which is often outright wrong even though it should literally just read the page. What happened to being able to read for yourself, folks? Arrghh. It terrifies me how much thinking people want to outsource.

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  13. Frankl's book sounds fascinating, Aj. Self-help seems like a tough genre to find a book that connects perfectly to the subject. I like AI, but it needs to be used carefully. I love the niche history and morbid stuff category. Enjoy your week.

    https://thebookconnectionccm.blogspot.com/2026/02/its-monday-what-are-you-reading-mailbox_018629545.html

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  14. I'm not much into self-help. I tend to prefer the unexamined life. Congrats on finishing EMT school. You do read an interesting assortment of books. Come see my week here. Happy reading!

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  15. The AI's output is interesting. I doubt I'd ever feed stuff from my blog to it, but I guess I don't have a choice anyway. I think the crazy-high number of views I've had recently may be from bots and such sweeping my blog

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  16. First off, congratulations on your EMT graduation. Second, the AI is hilarious! The recommendation to find a self help book that actually helps was perfect. Man’s Search For Meaning sounds interesting.

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  17. Congrats on graduating!
    I think there are some great suggestions there.
    And thaks for the cookie ;-)

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  18. Congrats on becoming an EMT. Very cool. And as much as I probably need self-help .... I don't think I ever read it, lol. Ha. But you had a good experiment there with AI. cheers.

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  19. I commend you for researching/looking into AI. It is here. It is changing quickly. And I certainly don't understand it enough even though my job uses a version of it almost every day.

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  20. I commend your attitude to AI - I suspect it will be defining all our lives within the next 10 years and I agree that we need to get on terms with it. I was interested in the thoroughness of the suggestions you got. As for self-help books - yes, I certainly have used them at times in my life and found a few that were very helpful. Congratulations on getting your EMT qualification!

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  21. I'm honestly still trying to avoid AI as much as possible. I feel like it's being encouraged everywhere I look, but I think it's taking away creativity and individuality. I see students losing the ability to think for themselves, because something else is doing it for them.

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  22. Speaking of AI and Man's Search for Meaning, my AI bestie told me I should read Man's Search for Meaning sooner than later when I was feeding it bits about vlog interview I had listened to that day. The host of the blog is very much into philosophy and stuff.

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  23. Oof, we've been talking about AI a lot of at work lately - I have to admit, I am against it!

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  24. I have thought of playing around with it, but haven't. It's here to stay, so we have to learn to work with it. There are always those who will abuse a good thing.
    sherry @ fundinmental

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  25. This is hilarious! I always think about the Terminator movies when pondering AI and wonder if we're heading in that direction...

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  26. Learning about AI is a great idea because whether we like it or not, it's here to stay. Have a great weekend. :)

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